The little blue gift that keeps Mom laughing through the happy tears
A cheeky embroidered “Keep Your Sh*t Together” hankie brides are obsessed with — over 3,000 Amazon reviews call it the perfect Mother-of-the-Bride surprise.
Capture the Moment She Opens Her KYST Hankie
Give her the hankie just before the ceremony – in the getting-ready room, during your first look, or right before you walk down the aisle. That’s when the emotions hit, and this little blue “don’t ugly cry” hankie turns the nerves into a happy laugh-cry you’ll never forget.
- Perfect for Mother of the Bride, Mother of the Groom, the Bride, or Grandma
- Shows up in the photos you actually print and frame (she’s holding it in every hug)
- A cheeky “Keep Your Sh*t Together” reminder she’ll treasure long after the wedding

Trusted by 3,000+ Brides (and Their Moms)
For 7+ years, our original “Keep Your Sh*t Together” hankie has been the go-to Mother of the Bride gift on Amazon. With over 3,000 reviews, a 4.9★ average rating, and around 19,000 hankies gifted, brides use it to turn ugly-cry nerves into happy laugh-cry moments.
The ‘Something Blue’ Gift They’ll Keep Forever
Our original “Keep Your Sh*t Together” hankie is a soft, 100% cotton keepsake with cheeky blue embroidery and a gift-ready box. Named after our grandparents William & Flo, it’s that one small square of fabric that soaks up the happy-tears, shows up in all the photos, and then lives in their drawer for decades as a reminder of the day.
What Brides & Moms Say About Their KYST Hankie
Thousands of brides, moms & grandmas have used our “Keep Your Sh*t Together” hankie to turn ugly-cry nerves into happy laugh-cry memories. Here’s what a few of them say.
“My mom burst into tears as soon as she read it, then started laughing. It’s her favourite keepsake from the whole day.”
- Lindsay D., Bride
“I ugly-cried all over this and it soaked everything up without looking gross. It was perfect for photos.”
- Mackenzie P., Bride
“This was my ‘something blue’ for my daughter. She still keeps it in her bedside drawer. Worth every cent.”
- Zenia, Mother of the Bride
Who is the “Keep Your Sh*t Together” hankie for?
It was originally designed as a Mother of the Bride gift, but brides now use it for Mom, Dad, Mother of the Groom, Grandma, the Bride herself, and even the Maid of Honor. If they’re likely to happy-cry on the day and they have a sense of humour, this hankie works for them.
What makes this hankie different from a normal handkerchief?
Each hankie is made from soft white cotton with something-blue embroidery and comes in a gift-ready box. The cheeky message turns “don’t ugly cry” nerves into a laugh, and the quality means they can keep it as a little wedding keepsake long after the day is over.
Is the “Keep Your Sh*t Together” wording too rude for parents or grandparents?
It’s cheeky, but it’s playful rather than harsh. Most brides say their moms and grandmas burst out laughing, then start crying anyway – which is exactly the reaction they’re hoping for. With 3,000+ reviews and a 4.9★ average rating, it’s clear most families see it as a fun, light-hearted moment.